If you like someone, you are so close and you will make a mistake of seeing petty positive things as big as possible. This causes wrong expectations for the future life.If you start hating, its again the same story of focusing all petty problems as big as possible. This causes clashes and stress during the present life.

Staying as distant as possible physically is the easiest solution that people adopt, but it should be subtle further! Yes, staying bit distant mentally could be a better solution. Maybe our wise men of the past gave a name to this solution as “Detachment”